CouplesFight Club
Conflict Rules of Engagement · Fight Fair & Repair
If every fight with your partner feels like the same fight — going in circles, getting nowhere, never actually resolved — your relationship is not broken. You just never got the rulebook. This is where you and your partner finally build it before the next hard moment — you leave with more than hope this time. You leave with a plan: your own personalized conflict agreement, built together and ready when you need it.
Reserve Your Spot Limited to 10 tickets · each ticket includes a plus-one · doors close when the room's fullEvery couple fights.
Almost nobody has rules.
We were never formally taught how to have healthy conflict. This workshop is where you learn together.
Fighting fair has rules
You just haven't written yours down yet. This workshop is where you finally do.
No hitting below the belt
Define your personalized relationship rules of engagement. What's allowed and what's off the table.
Timeouts are allowed. Ghosting is not.
Collaborate on a way to pause intense conversations and de-escalate.
You fight the problem, not each other
Same corner, same team. Work through conflict as allies not enemies.
Leave with your conflict map
Working with your partner, you will prepare a mutually agreed-upon conflict guide to use during your next heated argument.
This isn't therapy. It's coaching.
Not only will you learn the principles of good conflict, you will practice them so you can integrate them into life immediately.
One workshop a month.
One skill built for life.
Couples Fight Club is a monthly, in-person workshop series for couples who want to improve their communication skills and gain confidence around how to handle conflict — not avoid it, not "win" it, but move through it — and come out stronger than ever before. Each session builds a new layer: communication, repair, de-escalation, protocols.
Session One — Rules of Engagement & Protocols is about building your personalized conflict playbook: the ground rules you both agree to before you're mid-fight, when calm agreements are the last thing on either of your minds and the damage is already done.
This Is For You If —
You want to break the cycle of having the same fight on repeat, and actually get somewhere this time
You want to bring up hard topics without worrying it'll spiral into something bigger, or turn into a fight
You want to feel like you and your partner are finally speaking the same language
You want to feel safe having hard conversations — heard, seen, and understood, even when it's hard
You want real tools you can implement into your relationship immediately
You want to build confidence around conflict by practicing it in a safe, low-stakes room instead of learning the hard way, mid-fight
You want a stronger relationship, and you're willing to learn — that's genuinely all it takes
3 rounds.
One rulebook.
This isn't a lecture. It's a working session — you leave with a finished document, not just notes.
Know Your Style
Identify how each of you actually fights — your instinct, your triggers, your default exit.
Rule Setting
Agree together on what's off-limits, and uncover the real needs driving it.
Write The Rulebook
Co-create your personalized Rules of Engagement document, guided by conflict expert Christina Morelli.
Practice Round
Time permitting, we'll put each couple's new conflict guide into practice with a real, low-stakes disagreement.
You walk in with unspoken rules. You walk out with a written rulebook — signed by both of you.
A living document you can pull out the next time things get heated.
Session One Details
Couples
Fight Club
Christina Morelli
Helping couples turn their conflict into connection.
I believe relationships are the most important thing we do in this life. At the end of it, nobody wishes they'd landed one more promotion — they wish they'd had more time with the people they love. Here's what I know for sure: none of us were ever formally taught how to communicate or move through conflict together. We just copied whatever we saw growing up. I spent years in relationships where I felt small and unheard before I understood that. Conflict isn't something to hide from or feel ashamed of — it's one of the most honest ways to actually know your partner. I've built my life around teaching hundreds of couples exactly that.
Questions, Answered
Do we need any experience with this kind of work?
None. This is designed for couples starting from scratch, and for couples who've done therapy before and want something more hands-on and practical.
Do we have to come as a couple?
Not at all. These are relating skills that apply romantically, platonically, at work, and within family — come as a couple, solo, or with a friend. Every ticket includes a plus-one if you'd like to bring someone.
Is this couples therapy?
No. This is skills training — structured and hands-on, and you leave with a document you can actually use. It's meant to complement therapy, not replace it.
What if we're in the middle of a hard season right now?
That's actually a good time to build a rulebook — you'll have real material to work from. If things feel unsafe or in crisis, reach out before the workshop so we can talk through whether this is the right fit right now.
Do we have to come every month?
No — each session stands on its own. But Session One lays the foundation the rest of the series builds on, so it's the best place to start.
What should we bring?
Optional: a notepad or laptop/tablet for note-taking.
What's your cancellation policy?
Cancel with at least 7 calendar days' notice for a full refund. Less notice than that, and your payment can go toward a future workshop instead.
See you at Fight Club.
Stop fighting. Start loving. Your path to effective communication, healthy conflict, and real relationship resilience starts here. Reserve your spot for August 15th and begin the journey back to each other.
Reserve Your Spot — $59